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Manifesto I

The crisis no one
wants to talk about.

Pornography is the largest unregulated social experiment in human history. It is destroying minds, marriages, and souls. And the world has decided to look the other way. We refuse.

78%

of American men consume pornography.

Barna Group, "Beyond the Porn Phenomenon," 2024
12 avg. age of
first exposure
Common Sense Media, 2022
$76B global industry
built on exploitation
Research and Markets, 2024

The numbers

The scale of the epidemic.

61%

of U.S. adults consume pornography, up from 55% just nine years ago.

Barna Group, "Beyond the Porn Phenomenon," 2024
73%

of teenagers have viewed pornography online by age 17, with over half first exposed by age 13.

Common Sense Media, 2022
12 yrs

is the average age of first exposure to pornography in the United States.

Common Sense Media, 2022
26%

of men ages 18 to 34 now experience erectile dysfunction, a condition previously rare in young men.

National Survey of Sexual Wellbeing, 2021
56%

of divorce attorneys surveyed reported a spouse's obsessive interest in pornography as a significant factor in cases.

American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers survey, 2002
$76B

global online adult entertainment industry, built on exploitation and the commodification of human beings.

Global Industry Analysts, 2024

The damage

What pornography does.

The Brain

  • Hijacks the same neural pathways as addictive drugs, flooding the brain with dopamine.
  • Rewires reward circuitry, requiring increasingly extreme content to achieve the same effect.
  • Measurably reduces grey matter in the prefrontal cortex, the seat of willpower and decision-making.
  • Creates a cycle of tolerance, escalation, and desensitization that mirrors clinical addiction.

Relationships

  • The #1 predictor of infidelity and marital dissatisfaction.
  • Trains the brain to view people as objects, destroying the capacity for authentic intimacy.
  • Partners report feelings of betrayal, inadequacy, and emotional abandonment.
  • Creates expectations that no real relationship can fulfill.

The Soul

  • "Everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery in his heart." (Mt 5:28)
  • Attacks the virtue of chastity, the integration of sexuality within the whole person.
  • Fragments the self, creating a secret life that erodes integrity.
  • "Pornography is a grave offense … does grave injury to the dignity of its participants." (CCC 2354)

Society

  • Inseparable from human trafficking and exploitation.
  • Linked to increased acceptance of sexual violence.
  • Contributes to the epidemic of loneliness, isolation, and declining birth rates.
  • Children are increasingly exposed, with devastating developmental effects.

Declaration

We declare war
on this evil.

We believe every human being is made in the image and likeness of God, endowed with an inherent, inviolable dignity that no industry has the right to exploit.

We believe sexuality is a sacred gift, ordered toward love and life, not consumption and self-destruction.

We believe the epidemic of pornography is not inevitable. It is not "just the way things are." It is a wound. And wounds can be healed.

We believe freedom is possible. Not through willpower alone, but through grace, community, and accountability that refuses to let you stay in chains.

We believe every person who breaks free creates a ripple: in their family, their community, their world. One freed soul frees others.

This is why Count On Me exists. This is what we fight for. And we will not stop.

"For freedom Christ has set us free; stand firm therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery."

Galatians 5:1
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